There are certainly some occasions where they do need to relax more, but there are also times when a more serious minded individual is needed.

[Imagine trying to get through a difficult situation and the people are jesting and joking? She does work with several who are stout and might seem boorish, but sometimes it is just their culture.

She gives a little shake of her head.]

I don't mind. I suppose that it's not exactly set out, and this community here of people who are brought together, come from such varied lives. There is nothing wrong with any of that, but it is a little like a dream that you find yourself giving a presentation that you haven't prepared for.