"Probably because I'm cute, it makes me easy to talk to and non-threatening." What, she's cute and non-threatening, those are facts. She'll accept the whole secret identity running around fighting people in circus clothes leads to trust issues. And just leave it be.

"Yeah, apparently fighting galactic evil doesn't allow for much dating. So... it's slow, but I think I need that right now." This is what happens when Jay has girl talk with Lola. "If you know what you want, and what to do, you don't really need to talk to me unless this is just gossip over coffee. And I don't have all the time in the world for that."