[is that supposed to be scary because she is not impressed she will battle you, she'll do it!!]

The fuck are you even on? Politeness is polite, that's it, period. I didn't say you couldn't be firm about it, just don't be a jackass to somebody trying to give you free food. Dick.

[Why is she forever meeting adults that haven't learned their manners?? Her exasperation at being what she perceives as The Most Mature One In The Room is clear.]