You'd still be yourself. Even if you found a new purpose, or other things you'd like to achieve in your life.

You don't just want to be a cop. You want to help people too, you want... companionship. I saw your profile— [ He says pointedly, lifting a shoulder. ] A guy who just wants to be a cop and wants nothing else from his life doesn't talk about possibly experiencing love someday. Having more doesn't cheapen whatever main purpose you still want to achieve in your life. Trust me, I know.